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So, is spanking beneficial to your child, or will it ruin them forever?
I'll post my opinion later when my brain works.

It shouldn't be abused as a discipline tool, but it can be effective.

While physical harm is something that no one enjoys...it is human nature to avoid situations that lead to physical harm.

I was deservedly spanked when I was a child, and I learned my lessons accordingly.

Yes. Spank your kids. I dunno if there is an official definition for spanking your children, but I view it as open palm, or something like a paddle, belt, etc and a few quick raps on the bottom. Enough to sting and be sore for a while, but not so bad they have bruises, can't sit, etc. If you do this as a form of punishment on occasion, you're fine.

Also, Raven, make this a poll later.

No.

Also poll is up.

no, because my parents never hit me, if i was too young to understand anyway they would let it pass, but when i got older they would sit me down and tell why that was bad and a basic set of rules to follow, also i had no reason to misbehave, but everybody is different

You shouldn't hit your kids because it is a horrible thing to do.

Regardless of my stance, I do realize this is a topic that doesn't really have a clear cut answer.....to each their own, to each their own moral as well..The different views on this topic play their part in making the world go round.

I'm generally against hitting your children, because, in the cases i've seen, kids just become resentful and even more bratty.
But some kids might need it, it varies with them.

In my case, I was never disciplined or hit. I always wanted explanations though, so if my mom or dad talked it over with me, I listened.

Though what really makes me sick are the parents who try to discipline their kids who are too young understand, why it's happening. Like disciplining your toddler because they broke a dish or something.

I was never beat on and I... think I turned out fine.

There are other ways of punishment than physical.

I voted no- I simply believe it detrimental to a child's sense of right/wrong for them to avoid a certain behavior only for fearing the consequences incurred. They should so understand why the behavior or action is incorrect, through explanation, that they'll straighten of their own accord- if their only restraint is the fear of punishment, they might simply search for a method to avoid said punishment while continuing with the unwanted behavior.

In addition, I'm of the opinion that violence, even so mild as spanking, can only worsen any relationship.

There are other ways to punish your kids. Using violence will make them resent you for it and somebody shouldn't have to endure physical pain. You shouldn't teach your children that violence is the best way to solve a problem.

"Parent: You hit your littlle brother? Get over here!
*Spank Spank Spank*"

Does this seem wrong to anyone else?

An eye for an eye ideology just leads to a never ending cycle of revenge.

If blinid people have better hearing, than an eye for an eye gives the whole world better hearing.
I kid... I kid...

Exactly derp and kerr